Lots of responses to last week's post about pet peeves. Here are some of them, along with a bit of commentary.
Reader peeve: Can we get people to stop using “unique” unless it is? Or say “[My company] has vast experience…” And could you weigh in on “snuck”? I think it’s anathema, but I fear that I’m in the minority.
My response: I’m a realist so, no, sadly, we probably cannot get people to stop using the word “unique,” whether a thing is unique or not. That's not to say we shouldn't try, however. Re: vast. It's not that lots of companies don't have vast experience in a vast variety of things (mine does, after all), it's just that the phrase itself - "vast experience" - is so overused as to be meaningless. I promise to stop using it if you do. And as for “snuck,” I’m not sure which side of the proverbial fence you’re on regarding it but I have a sneaking suspicion you don’t like it. AP prefers “sneaked” as past tense of "sneak" and warns “Do not use the colloquial snuck.” But Merriam-Webster says “snuck” is acceptable (though not preferable). Sorry to say, you'll have to use your judgment, as scary as that may be.
Reader peeve: I’ll throw in my favorite for a future column – misuse of the word “irony” as interchangeable for “coincidence.” Reporters and broadcasters get this wrong ALL the time, which, of course, is ironic given that words are their profession.
My response: “The great thing about irony,” said the writer David Foster Wallace, who wrote “Infinite Jest” and who, sadly, died this past weekend, “is that it splits things apart, gets up above them so we can see the flaws and hypocrisies and duplicates.
Reader peeve: Speaking of pet peeves, could you at some point do a post on “singular?” It annoys me that everyone uses it in place of “single.” And “assume” versus “presume.”
My response: “Single” means one thing or person, while “singular” describes something or someone distinctive or, dare I say it, unique. As for “assume” and “presume,” here’s what englishplus.com says: Assume has a variety of meanings. It basically means "to take up or on oneself," "to suppose or take for granted," "to pretend," or "to be taken up. . . . Presume is related to and similar to assume, but it has the sense of doing it beforehand. It means "to dare or venture without prior knowledge," "to assume as believable without direct proof," "to take as a premise, subject to further proof," or "to behave arrogantly or overconfidently.
Reader peeve: Sorry for this, but I have to express my number one pet peeve, which can be found in the following sentence: "It was a great day for Steve and I." Why do people think it's never correct to use the word "me"?
My response: Me has no idea.
Reader peeve: “Go with”: This seems to be a (U.S.) Midwestern (or, at least, Chicago) thing: “I’m going to the grocery store. Do you want to go with?” Arggh! My response often is: “Go with you? Go with money? Go with somebody better looking? Go with a bottle of scotch?”
My response: As a Chicagoan I'm kind of partial to "go with." I like singular regionalisms. I also recall as a kid hearing my parents and their friends all say, "Let's go out for coffee and.” (No doubt they followed it up with “Do you want to go with?”)
Reader peeve: Like, why is it, like, that anyone under, like, 30, like, has to, like, use the word “like” in every, like, sentence, like? I’ve heard some young people on the elevator [where I work] whose every other word is “like.” I often wonder if they’d be, like, mute, if, like, they couldn’t use the word “like,” like, y’know?
My response: The people who use “like” like that are also the ones who use the word “go” for “say,” as in: “So, like, he goes, ‘let’s dance,’ and, like, I go, ‘no, way, dude, so he goes 'fine' and walks away.”